Mate Selection

Today we talked about mate selection. It was funny to me because at the beginning of class he asked what the first thing that came to our mind when we thought about mate selection and the first thing that popped into my mind was animals. However, I think the things we covered in class were very helpful. We talked about the games that people play with eachother. We talked about how they are healthy or unhealthy. It was good to talk about those games because it makes you think about what you yourself do in a relationship. It's also helpful to distinguish which ones are good to do and which are bad. This will help in the future talking with families. We also talked about premarital inventories. I think it's such a good idea for couples to do. I think I will for sure do it with my fiance when I get engaged. I think it's smart to do premarital counceling also. These were very helpful topics to discuss in class.