Thursday, April 2, 2009

Cmmunication

Communication in the marriage brought up a lot of issues in my mind. Recently my fiancĂ© and I have had a bad case of terrible communication. We have the tendencies to argue consistently on a daily basis. Then we both are too tired to argue, it’s like we ignore the entire issue. I’ve read about how to have better communication with my partner, buts it’s far more challenging to actually do. I want to work on our relationship in order to become stronger couple, but I honestly don’t know where to start. Recently we have had issues with power struggling. Either we butt heads over how things should be done a certain way, or we argue about who is to make even the smallest decisions.
I know I want to help us grow in our relationship. Like it is said time and time again, communication is key to a strong relationship, but how exactly do couples get better at communication. If things are said to one another in a wrong tone of voice, the whole message you were trying to send completely becomes irrelevant. I know that we both play key parts on trying to work things out. I honestly think we need either couples counseling or some form of therapy. I feel like I am at my wits end trying to figure things out.

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